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"Never
doubt that a small group of committed citizens can change the
world; indeed, it's the only thing that ever has," states
Margaret
Mead, noted American anthropologist and writer. It's this
belief, along with the ancient knowledge of the force created
when women gather together, that's the driving force behind
grassroots efforts to turn the tide on poverty, violence, greed,
and war through the creation of women's sacred circles.
When I was in New York last February, for the UN Commission on
the Status of Women, I went to a workshop put on by Jean
Shinoda Bolen1
and titled after her book, Urgent
Message From Mother: Gather The Women, Save The World .
A message I've been hearing frequently and clearly for the past
few yearsin social justice meetings, around the coffee table,
at religious gatherings, and on the Internetis that there's
an unprecedented urgency to respond to the immediate needs of
the planet, because time is running out. The human race appears
to be on a direct course to self-obliteration and utter destruction
of the world in which we live.
Bolen believes it's time to gather the women, for the ancient
wisdom of the circle where women come together will give birth
to the healing power the world needs now. Many male leaders in
the global peace and social justice movements are acknowledging
that it's time for women to take the lead. Desmond
Tutu, in his book God
Has a Dream: A Vision of Hope for Our Time 2,
mentions that in order for there to be real peace in the world,
women must take over. In an interview with Oprah Winfrey in December
of 2004, he goes on to say, "Women have a way of reaching
out to others. I want to suggest that women start a revolution.
God depends on you that you are going to turn this world into
the kind of place you want. It should be a place of compassion,
of gentleness, of sharing, or caring."3
"We need to know that we are a part of a network of mystics
who are helping the world to come alive with love, working from
within to redeem a world that has become desecrated with materialism
and forgetfulness," writes Llwellyn
Vaughan-Lee, Sufi
teacher and Jungian
psychologist.4
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Llewellyn,
with his mystical insights, also sees the significant role women
play in today's world when he writes, "Women have a specific
role to play in this work, as their bodies contain a creative
force that unites matter and spirit. This creative principle naturally
allows the inner to flow to the outer, nourishing what has been
forgotten with the light and love of the divine."5
Most of us realize that there's a spiritual significance to the
circlethat it's a sacred symbol of completeness. It represents
wholeness, and can be seen as a model for the organizational structure
of life, itselfa cosmic diagram that reminds us of our relation
to the infinite, the world that extends both beyond and within
our bodies and minds. Combining this knowledge with the energy
of the feminine principle creates a very powerful transforming
force that's unrecognized in the world's path of domination and
violence.
I've met women, this year, who have become braver because of the
uniting force of other women (and, also, men) in the face of violence,
poverty, oppression, and abuse. Women whose genitals have been
forcefully mutilated have taken a stand against this practice
and their collective global shouting is being heard across the
oceans and into the living rooms of people who would never, otherwise,
have known FGM (Female Genital Mutilation), let alone that it's
a growing practice throughout the world.
There are women who have been forcefully conscripted into military
combatnot to be used as soldiers, but, rather, as sex slaves
to male soldiers. These women are telling their stories of shame
and violence to the world in an effort to save their sisters.
Women are exposing high-powered business and governmental practices
that participate in the booming sex trade industry. In doing so,
these women risk their lives for the lives of those who come after
them. How do these women get the strength and support to step
out in the face of such opposition? By coming together across
cultural, religious, geographical, and political divides and taking
a united stand against these atrocities.
This powerful tool of the sacred circle has inspired women from
the developed world to take note and try to recapture the social
fiber of the gathering of women which keeps civilizations together.
A grassroots movement among Anglican women, The Beijing Circles,
has been birthed (often including men) to address the 12 principles
of the Beijing Platform for Action created in 1995 at a special
UN gathering of women from around the world. In a small group
setting, women come together and share stories and hear (or read)
the stories of other women who are fighting for equality, fair
treatment, education, a chance to support themselves, and even
their own lives. These stories enter the homes of women who are
far away from military combat, forced sterilization, sex trade,
and oppression. But all of these women have their own stories
to tell because pain and suffering cross the boundaries of social
and economic status. The swapping and telling of storiespracticed
by women, for thousands of years, around the water wellis
empowering people to respond to what they hear.
There are other groups and training opportunities, as wellsome
religious in nature and some secular, such as The Institute Circleworksand
studies on Sacred Geometry from Bruce Rawles. Wisdom of the Elders
also celebrates the importance of Women's circles, as do many,
many others. One needs only search the Internet to realize the
growth in this movement.
From my own experience with women working through the UN and Beijing
Circles experiments, along with conversations and readings from
other women involved in circle groups, I've come to understand
that the circle is, first of all, grounding, as one must keep
a physicalas well as mentalfocus on the center. A
sense of safety is created in a circle, which is very important
for a healing to occur. For example, even a simple Talking Circle
among Native Americans allows for the even-handed discussion of
contentious issues. No one else is allowed to speak other than
the person holding the talking stick. No interruptions at all.
When the speaker is finished, she may then pass the stick to the
next person, who is allowed to say whatever she thinks, or she
may choose to pass the stick along.
In a circle group, one learns intellectually but, also, experientially.
The approach engages more wholly the body, mind, and spirit, and
it doesn't matter what the religious beliefs or backgrounds are;
there's always an acknowledgment of the Spirit. Therefore, over
time, the group becomes aware that it's also being led and guided
toward growth and realization of its purpose. A deeper understanding
of life transforms the people in the circle and, from that knowledge,
energy is createdenergy that ebbs out of the group and touches
the world wherever these women go. Staying centered in the circle
is important, as is staying interconnected with those in the circle.
These are also some basic principles of sacred geometry.
The interconnectedness isn't just with the people in the circle,
however. It continues up and out from the group and taps into
spiritual sources that keep the earth and its inhabitants alive.
This circle of Oneness is a source of Love, and it's just as necessary,
for our continued life on earth, to free it from the forces of
violence, abuse, war, and hatred, as are the air we breathe and
the water we drink. These circles are happening now, among women
whose voices haven't been heard before. And, once again, the women
who gather together over tea or at the water well, will begin
its centuries-old job of changing the world.
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