crossing borders in new york
(a week and more at the u.n. commission
on the status of women)
commentary by alyssa stebbing, oef (a/k/a 'b.a.r. nun')
published 15 march 2007
 
tending the planet | volume 1 number 3
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"'It's a question of discipline,' the little prince told me, later on. 'When you've finished washing and dressing each morning, you must tend your planet.'"
-Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Little Prince
 
published since August 2006 | Tending the Planet presents Alyssa Stebbing's ruminations on living a life of service.
 
 

Alyssa Stebbing (eMailWeb siteUN blog) grew up the true flower child of well-educated, hippie parents. Spending a couple of years at a commune in New Mexico, in the early '70s—and having the experiment end poorly—sent her family packing to the nearest church, 35 miles away.


Alyssa's experience as a folk, punk, country, and rock musician and songwriter was enormously helpful in her work with other musicians, through Compassion International, for nine years. In 1998, she left Compassion to start The Legacy of a Kid Brother of St. Frank, following the death of her friend, Rich Mullins. The Legacy works with at-risk youth on reservations, in urban areas, and with Russian orphans, using music and the arts to develop coping skills and discover alternatives to violence and abuse.


Alyssa is a professed Franciscan with the Order of Ecumenical Franciscans, and is known, in the Order, as Sr. A. Claire Magdalena. She currently assists a church in The Woodlands, Texas in developing a worship service that utilizes artistic disciplines, and serves as the parish's Director of Outreach.

 
 
 

 
 
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If anyone had forewarned me that I'd be delving into the world of politics and lobbying governments in my quest for peace and justice, I'd have considered taking up another cause. But there I was in New York, on February 22nd, standing in a long line, along with 5000 other women, waiting for the desk to open so that we could register for the UN Commission on the Status of Women (UNCSW) and pass all security screening to receive our brown delegate ID cards. I have to say, I often felt as though I was in the middle of some Hollywood drama. It was thrilling. People from around the world—mostly women, in this instance—wearing native or religious attire, hustling to the various plenary sessions, caucuses, or debriefings. What was even more amazing is that many of the represented countries were at war, fighting each other in their respective homelands but, here...sitting, walking, standing, talking together for a common cause.

 
 
(l-r) Hahn Tran (formerly from Vietnam, now in California)
and Alyssa Stebbing
 
 

Interestingly, when I first met up with my delegation of Anglican Women (the largest delegation at the UNCSW), it was awkward revealing that I was from Texas. Two issues were at play.


First, the Episcopal Church is being spanked very soundly for fulfilling its baptismal vows: "seek and serve Christ in all persons, loving your neighbor as yourself" ; "strive for justice and peace among all people, and respect the dignity of every human being". Some of the illustrious bishops in Texas have raised quite a bit of money and offered it to their compeers in Africa to collectively kick the U.S. church out of the Anglican Communion.


Secondly, on a global scale, people from Texas are eyed with great suspicion. For obvious reasons. When I asked a woman from Afghanistan what was really happening in her country, she immediately asked where I'm from. When I told her "Texas", she said, "I don't know that I should talk to you." After convincing her that I'm not related to George Bush—by blood or politics—she told me, in no uncertain terms, what a disaster we've left her country and how America has abandoned the people. By the end of the week, I almost changed my name tag to state I was from Rhode Island.


I can't tell you how psychologically overwhelming the 12 days at the UN were. Addressing the Millennium Developmental Goals established by the UN in 2000 and the 12th area of concern from the Beijing Platform created in 1995, the theme for this year's session was “Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination and Violence Against the Girl Child.” (You can read the direct mandate of the UNCSW by visiting HERE.)


Since I'm going to be covering international issues related to The MDGs and Beijing Platform, here's a list of the goals:


Millennium Development Goals
 
Goal 1
 
Eradicate extreme poverty and hunger.
Goal 2
 
Achieve universal primary education.
Goal 3
 
Promote gender equality and empower women.
Goal 4
 
Reduce child mortality.
Goal 5
 
Improve maternal health.
Goal 6
 
Combat HIV/AIDS, Malaria and other diseases.
Goal 7
 
Ensure environmental sustainability.
Goal 8
 
Develop a global partnership for development.
 
Beijing Platform for Action: Critical areas for concern
 
1
 
the persistent and increasing burden of poverty for women
2
 
inequalities and inadequacies in—and unequal access to—education and training
3
 
inequalities and inadequacies in—and unequal access to—health care and related services
4
 
violence against women
5
 
the effects of armed or other kinds of conflict on women, including those living under foreign occupation
6
 
inequality in economic structures and policies, in all forms of productive activities and in access to resources
7
 
inequality between women and men in the sharing of power and decision-making at all levels
8
 
insufficient mechanisms at all levels to promote the advancement of women
9
 
lack of respect for and inadequate promotion and protection of the human rights of women
10
 
stereotyping of women and inequality in women’s access and participation in all communication systems, especially the media
11
 
gender inequality in the management of natural resources and in the safeguarding of the environment
12
 
persistent discrimination and violation of the rights of the girl child

I'm still working through the depressing state of the world presented through the voices of young girls that I listened to, repeatedly, over the course of nearly two weeks. I heard from a Congolese girl who'd been forced into the military at a very young age, to serve as a sex slave. Very few of the girls conscripted into service see actual armed conflict; most serve the military for sex. This isn't just an African problem.


I heard from several girls and women who've suffered the rapidly growing tradition of Female Genital Mutilation (or Cutting). These procedures are performed on girls in order to guarantee their virginity to their elderly husbands. One girl from Kenya, of the Maasai tribe, ran away, at age eight, when she was betrothed to a 90 year-old man. She knew of a home for girls in the city, and has lived there for almost ten years, receiving a wonderful education which has empowered her to speak out for girls in her country.

 
Nema, from the Maasai Tribe in Tanzania, ran away at age 8 when betrothed to a 90 year old man. She received an education at a girls home and now speaks out on Female Gential Mutilation and violence against women in Africa.
 

I heard from girls who'd been rescued from the sex slave trade, girls who've experienced horrible violence due the wars in their respective countries. Girls with HIV/AIDS spoke out. Girls who work in factories for at least 12 hours a day, while still trying to attend school, weighed in. You get the idea; the list is endless.


The United States is the only developed nation that hasn't ratified CEDAW (Convention on the Elimination of Discrimination Against Women), nor has it ratified the Convention on the Rights of the Child. The only other country that hasn't ratified the resolution on Rights of the Child is Somalia. This was just the beginning of my learning how far the United States has slipped in the "developed" classification.


Apparently, the main opposition to ratifying CEDAW is that some "concerned citizens" have stated that this resolution would open the door for wide-spread legalized abortion. I can guarantee you that is not the case, and not once did I hear this issue even being discussed at the global level. In the meantime, millions are tortured, starving, and abused, and the U.S. is currently one of eight countries refusing to ratify. Here's a letter to Senators Biden and Boxer, drawn up by our delegation since the UNCSW in New York, requesting immediate action by the U.S. government:


North American NGO Caucus at the 51st Commission
on the Status of Women
c/o Office of Women’s Ministries, The Episcopal Church
815 2nd Ave. • NY • NY • 10017
 
March 1, 2007
 
Senator Joseph Biden and Senator Barbara Boxer
Senate Foreign Relations Committee
Cc:
 
Representative Nancy Pelosi
   
Ambassador Patricia Brister, U.S. Mission to the United Nations
 

Dear Senator Biden and Senator Boxer,


We, the U.S. members of the North American NGO Caucus to the 51st Commission on the Status of Women at the United Nations, call on you and other members of the Senate Foreign Affairs Select Committee to schedule hearings on the ratification of the Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination Against Women (CEDAW) during this coming session of Congress. Beginning Congressional hearings on this critical treaty is an important part of the United States’ effort to reestablish its place as a leader in human rights and equal opportunity around the world.


At a time when the majority leader of the U.S. House of Representatives is a woman, now is the moment for Congress to reconsider the positive impact that CEDAW has on women’s lives around the world. CEDAW enabled countries like the Ukraine, Nepal, Thailand, and the Philippines to pass laws against sex trafficking. CEDAW helped Pakistan introduce coeducation in primary schools. CEDAW played a role in Australia, Mexico, and Argentina providing health care programs to indigenous and migrant women. As you know, currently 185 countries—including Iraq and Afghanistan—have ratified this international treaty.


In a season when the political winds of change are being felt in our nation’s capital and around the country, it is time once again to take on the myths about CEDAW on the Senate floor. For too long, opposition to this treaty has rested on the misconception that support for family planning will mean encouraging abortion. Your own committee recognized in 1994 that this is not the case, and the State Department has recognized that CEDAW is “abortion neutral.” Likewise, the idea that CEDAW somehow interferes with traditional family structures is also a myth that needs shattering. As you know, the treaty urges governments to “adopt education and public information programs to eliminate prejudices and practices that hinder women’s equality.”


The United States has best practices to share with the rest of the world in the areas of advancement of women in this country. Yet our nation simultaneously suffers a very tarnished image abroad when it comes to human rights and equal opportunity. Ratification of CEDAW and the Optional Protocol would demonstrate the progress that the U.S. has made in women’s rights.


In conclusion, we urge you to put CEDAW, a treaty that the United States was instrumental in forming, on the schedule again for hearings in this upcoming congressional session. Thank you for your attention to this matter.

 
sitting (l to r) Angie Chan Nga Ki, girl delegate from Hong Kong; Alyssa Stebbing, delegate from Texas; Deepti Steffi, girl delegate from India; standing (l to r) Liliana Cisneros, delegate formerly from Nicaraugua, now in Wisconsin; Hahn Tran, delegate from California; Carolyn Christie, girl delegate from New Jersey
 

So, what's being done, at this point? Well, I'm involved, to some degree, in the North American Caucus, but I also jumped into the Peace Caucus as it was much smaller, at the UNCSW, and needed additional people. Every Caucus, from every country and area of concern, has wordsmith-ed the UN Draft Resolution on the Status of Women and submitted it to respective governmental Missions. The language in the original draft resolution was very weak on any protection, education, and enforcement of laws protecting girls from violence. As the U.S. Mission isn't the most engaged and responsive Mission at the UN, many of us from the Anglican Delegation lobbied other governments, as well. I just received the Draft Agreed Conclusions at the final writing of this article and you may read it here.


I'll continue to bring stories of situations and developments from around the world to each issue of The Bohemian Aesthetic as there's, now, a newly formed UNCSW-NGO (Non-Governmental Organization) Caucus since we've all returned home, working together to pass legislation protecting girls and women.


I'd like to mention, also, that—despite the war raging in the Anglican Communion—the nearly 100 Anglican women from around the world comprising our delegation, and recognizing that there are, certainly, more pressing issues in the world right at present, wrote the following response to the Primates:


From the Anglican Women Gathered at the
51st Session of the United Nations Commission on the Status of Women
 
March 3, 2007
 

We, the women of the Anglican Communion gathered in New York as the Anglican Consultative Council delegation to the 51st Session of the United Nations Commission on the Status of Women, and as members of the International Anglican Women’s Network representing the diversity of women from across the world-wide Anglican Communion, wish to reiterate our previously stated unequivocal commitment to remaining always in “communion” with and for one another.


We remain resolute in our solidarity with one another and in our commitment, above all else, to pursue and fulfill God’s mission in all we say and do.


Given the global tensions so evident in our church, today, we do not accept that there is any one issue of difference or contention which can—or, indeed, would—ever cause us to break the unity as represented by our common baptism. Neither would we ever consider severing the deep and abiding bonds of affection which characterize our relationships as Anglican women.


We have been challenged in our time together by the desperately urgent issues of like and death faced by countless numbers of women and children in our communities. As a diverse delegation, we prayerfully reflected on these needs.


We, thus, reaffirm the conclusion of the statement presented by our delegation to this year’s Session of the United Nations Commission on the Status of Women:


This sisterhood of suffering is at the heart of our theology
and our commitment to transforming the whole world
through peace with justice.

Rebuilding and reconciling the world is central to our faith.


Amen.

 
 
 

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